My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

I'm 19 and i have a 48 year old cousin who keeps humiliating and harrassing me everytime im near him. As soon as he sees me he says "oh hows that dumb art school your in going, graphic design is for people who could not get into a real college," Then he made a comment "Everything about you is fake, your hair, your eyes," he starts laughing. Then he threws stuff at me and says "just kidding" and laughs.

He also told me "you and your boyfriend will never last, and asked me if i even have a boyfriend or am i making it up".

When i was at his house by the pool, he ran over and threw me in ( i cant swim) he waited 5 minutes before he got me out.

My mother lets him do it, she says "oh just dont say anything, lets not cause any waves", she watches him talk and treat me like this and says nothing..

I have spoke up to him and he just gets worse. He never went to college and hes bankrupt and was arrested for embezzelment.

I have not been to family get togethers for a year now,

My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

Avoid the loser like the plague (which you are already doing), and ask the rest of your family to support you. If they won't, then cut them out of your life, too. Whether your mother likes it or not, your cousin **IS** making waves, and is doing things that could possibly kill you. If she can't wrap her brain around that fact, then something is seriously wrong with her, too.

I'm sorry to hear that your family situation sucks, but you certainly aren't the only one. Hopefully it will improve as you stand up for yourself, and don't put up with this nonsense.

My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

I'd say talk to your cousin's wife (though I'd be surprised if he's married), siblings, or parents. Better yet, look him straight in the eye and tell him if he doesn't stop you'll go to the cops and charge him with harassment, cuz that's exactly what it is.

My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

Bankrupt and arrested for embezzlement...and you can come up with quality digging comebacks for that. Honey if you can't capitalize on gold like that, you deserve what you get.

My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

whenever he says something to you just look the other way and ignore him. Cut him off by talking to someone else. He'll get the hint.

Or you could try the direct confrontation method. Save it for when you are all at the table for a meal (like thanksgiving) for maximum effect.

My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

Do you have any male adults that can set him straight? He needs to know that you are no longer a subject. No just kidding because he will not open his mouth about you. And trying to let you drown is assault possibly attempted murder.

You may have to show out and tell all of them how disappointed you are in their allowing him to dispreapect you every time he can.

Somebody needs to step in and stop him!

My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

You are an adult at 19. You don't HAVE to ever see him if you don't want to. He is a jealous loser who envies and degrades because of his failures...it is overcompensating and terrible behavior. Find something else to do if the family is getting together--make it clear you cannot go--don't say what it is--you already did that. This guy is a mess--and the family is not helping---he is always going to be a mess...so just avoid him for now. I had a sign shop for 35 years--I made over a million dollars lettering trucks and boats and making signs for people. It is a very lucrative business--and I did it parttime because I also was a paid firefighter. I did the signs on my days off. Sorry this guy is terrible to you--so just avoid any chance of being around him. Good luck to you

My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

Next time there is a family get together go to it. Take a police whistle with you around your neck. Whenever he makes a harassing remark, blow the whistle and announce to every one what it was and that you didn't appreciate it. That should probably get people's attention and cause him to back off.

My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

a 48 yr old man ,cousin or not ,should not be harrassing u

embarrass him back, and see how he likes it. sounds

likes he might just be jealous, because u got all the

good looks, and just maybe a little jealous, would be my quess.

ignore him completely, o.k and see what happens.

My cousin is humiliating and harassing me, what do i do?

hes jealous of you. Your family sucks for not stopping him, hes a bully.

I think its best your avoiding him. If theres a family get together next time bring your boyfriend and lets see him try that crap. Or even bring a male friend with you. This guy needs to be put in his place, hes a loser and he always will be and hes always going to bother you. Your mother is not a good mother to let him do that.